Every week our relationship specialist, Sarah Abell, answers visitors’ concerns on psychological problems.
7:00AM GMT 15 Mar 2011
In the past my closest friend, Sue, said she had dropped in love off saying, “I don’t feel the same way, you’re my best friend, I’m straight” with me and I brushed her. She is at the full time and is still in a relationship that is committed kiddies. We always been close friends within the years with periods where she’d distance themself from our relationship however we’d return to being ok once more, at the least, we thought we did.
Sue now informs me she’s got experienced love beside me the whole time and has struggled whenever I’ve held it’s place in relationships, which may have for ages been with dudes. Fast-forward to now and I also find myself in my own first relationship with a lady and it also is actually with Sue’s extremely friend that is best of two decades. We don’t understand why it just happened however it did and it also’s good.
She ended up being waiting for me personally to truly have the “ah ha” moment and realize I happened to be supposed to be along with her.
Plus the only explanation she thought through the years because I would never want to be with a girl that we weren’t together was. She blames me personally for the form her relationship has been around for the previous many years and she feels that I’ve led her on when it comes to time that is entire.
Sue is extremely mad I do not know how to navigate the situation with me and. She wants distance, that we have but i will be really upset too at having lost her relationship. She informs me she’s working on the relationship and household now and if it gets better, we are able to be buddies as time goes on. We come together and so I see her each day. Читать далее My closest friend is in deep love with me personally. Therefore now Sue is extremely hurt and seems betrayed.